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My mission in life is to inspire others to be happier and take risks to get what they want in life. I am telling you my story to show that there are possibilities for how to live your life in ways you may not have thought of before.

There are three reasons that I become a Lifestyle Entrepreneur 15 years ago:

1. I was in a serious car accident and lived with chronic pain.

2. I wanted to follow my passion, help people, and make a difference.

3. I wanted to live: “An extraordinary life!”
For the first three years after the accident, I was in agony every day. Luckily, a few years after the accident my back got a little better, so my husband and I decided to do what we called “reverse retirement.”

There were a few things that pushed us forward into this risky endeavor: we knew that in my later years I would become more limited in what I could do physically (when arthritis set into the joints that were injured in the car accident), we wanted to see the world, and I had always said I wanted to live an extraordinary life. I also think the fact that I had faced death pushed both of us to take more risks to get what we wanted in life.

So we quit our jobs and became Business Consultants. For five years we traveled five months a year and worked 7 months a year. We had a wonderful time on two to three month trips to: Slovakia, Paris, China, Australia & New Zealand, Thailand, Vietnam & Laos, The Netherlands, Greece & Turkey, to name a few.

We slept in beach huts, taught English in China, floated down the Mekong, climbed a glacier, swam with sting rays and sharks, and kayaked over a city under the sea (it had been banished underwater by an earthquake). And, we made friends all over the world.

A strange and wonderful phenomenon occurred during this time: We made more money than we had made while we were working full time.

From then on I knew I wanted to inspire others to stop living a 9 to 5, 2-weeks of vacation-a-year existence. I wanted to let people know that you can break out of the box and live a richer life.

Being a Lifestyle Entrepreneur has let me create an extraordinary life and follow my passion, and it has given me the flexibility to deal with my chronic pain.

Because I don’t have to report into an office, I don’t drive to work every day (which hurts my back) and I work at home most of the time (which allows me to lay down or rest when I need to).

It hasn’t been easy being a Lifestyle Entrepreneur. I may have worked more hours than I would have had I stayed in my Corporate job. I’ve worked hard on learning to sell and market myself. And the amount of money I have coming in, definitely ebbs and flows. But I love my path and wouldn’t trade it for the world. I hope my story inspires you to break out of the box, even in a small way.

 
As you know, I often work with my clients to help them break through the fear that holds them back in life. You also know that I’ve been on a quest to understand my own fear, so that I can better support my clients.
 
Early in 2008, on a trip to Costa Rica, I thought a Zip Line Canopy Tour would be a great place for me to explore my fear.
 
Boy was I right!
 

 
Not only did I grow up with an intense fear of barking Chihuahuas, but I also grew up with an intense fear of heights. Maybe it stems from the time when my best friend Brenda taunted me with, “you’re a big chicken!” until I jumped off the jungle gym and landed face-first on a rock.  Or the time I jumped off a kindergarten model of a spaceship and sprained my ankle so bad that it swelled up to three times its normal size.
 
It doesn’t really matter where the fear started.   What matters is how it sometimes stands in the way of my experiencing joy and accomplishing what I want to accomplish.
 
Years ago I was standing on the Eiffel Tower, only able to keep my back plastered to the mesh wall, struggling to wrench myself to the edge, and straining to see the amazing view of the buildings, gardens, and boulevards of Paris.  I finally forced myself to move to the edge for a few moments, but my ability to feel the full joy of the moment was blocked by the fear coursing through my veins.
 
So strapping myself to a Zip Line in Costa Rica to fly through the air, 30 feet above the jungle was a bit of a challenge.  But I’m determined not to let fear stand in my way.
 
It was higher than I thought it would be, and once I got up there I clung to the tree supporting the platform.  I didn’t want to move.  I literally thought, “I could just live here forever clinging to this tree.  That way I won’t risk falling to the ground.  But the nights would be freezing and I’d miss my husband.”
 
Once again, my darn life motto kicked in, “Don’t just do what’s easy, do what’s interesting.”
 
So I jumped off the platform and soared high above the forest canopy, with my brain screaming, “Why did you leave that perfectly good platform!!! Is the cable going to hold? Am I going to collide with that tree?”
 
Then I hit the platform, the guide steadied me, and I wrapped myself around the platform tree again.  My brain raced, “Wow, it’s a long way down there.”  My hands were shaking and my mouth was dry.
 
“OK, I didn’t do a great job of managing my fear that time.  So let’s try again.  Remember, accept the fear, be in the moment, focus on your senses.  Feel the wind on your face, and see the beautiful trees.”
 
Then it was my turn to jump again.
 
This time I did better.  I thought “hey, I’m flying through the jungle, it’s a little scary, but it’s also fun! I feel free and alive.  Who’d have thought!  Fear is fun!”
 

 
Fear is fun.  What a radical concept!  I learned that day in Costa Rica that no matter how big or small your fear is, these strategies help:
 

1. Remember, Fear is fun!
2. Practice makes facing fear easier.
3. Accept the fear, don’t fight it.
4. Be in the moment.
5. Use your senses to focus outside yourself.
6. The reward is almost always worth facing your fear.

 
So go out there and face your fear and get what you want!